Traditional Khmer (Cambodian) Proverbs

Khmer culture is rich with wise, uplifting sayings that teach lessons about life, family, and community. The proverbs below include the original Khmer script (ខ្មែរ), a Romanized transliteration, and an English translation, along with a brief explanation of the wisdom it conveys. Each proverb reflects a common Cambodian value or insight, often with a positive, motivating message.

• ចំណេះដឹងតិចតួចគឺជារឿងគ្រោះថ្នាក់ (chamnehdoeng techtuoch kuchea rueng krohthnak) — “A little knowledge is a dangerous thing.” This proverb warns against acting on incomplete understanding. It teaches that having only a small amount of knowledge can mislead us into overconfidence . The lesson: strive to learn deeply, remain humble about what you know, and avoid jumping to conclusions with only half the facts.
• ផ្លែប៉ោមរលួយមួយធ្វើឱ្យដៃគូរបស់វារងរបួស (phle paom rluoy muoy thveu auy daikou robas vea rng rbuos) — “A rotten apple injures its companions.”  Just as one bad apple can spoil the bunch, this saying reminds us that one person’s bad behavior can harm the whole group . It encourages people to choose good friends and associates so that the positivity of the group remains strong.
• ឱ្យឪពុកម្តាយរបស់អ្នកញ៉ាំខណៈពេលដែលបំពង់ករបស់ពួកគេនៅតែឈរ (auy aupok mday robos anak nham khnh pel del bamphongk robos puok ke now tae chor) — “Let your parents eat while their throats are still standing.”  This proverb emphasizes filial piety and love for parents. It means we should care for and provide for our parents while they are still alive and able, because our time with them is precious . It’s a warm reminder to honor and cherish family today.
• អ្នកប្រហែលជាដឹងច្រើន ប៉ុន្តែក៏គោរពចំណេះដឹងរបស់អ្នកដទៃផងដែរ (anak brahel chhn̥anh doeng chraen bonte ka korp chamnehs deung robos anak dtei phang der) — “You may know a lot, but also respect others’ knowledge.” This saying teaches humility and respect in learning. No matter how much we know, we should always honor what others know . It encourages being open-minded and polite – listening to others because everyone has something to teach us.
• ធ្វើល្អបានល្អ។ ធ្វើអាក្រក់បានអាក្រក់ (thveu la ban la. thveu akrok ban akrok) — “Do good, get good; do bad, get bad.”  A straightforward proverb about karma and reciprocity: the way you treat others will come back to you . In positive tone, it reminds us that kindness leads to kindness. By doing good deeds and helping others, we build goodwill in return.
• កុំទុកចិត្តមេឃ កុំទុកចិត្តផ្កាយ (kom tuk chet mek, kom tuk chet pkay) — “Don’t trust the sky, don’t trust the stars.”  This cautionary proverb advises being careful about blind trust . Even the sky can change, and stars fade, so people should not trust others completely without reason. (It’s a metaphor: things aren’t always as steady as they seem.) The upbeat takeaway: be wise and watchful about whom and what you trust, so you stay safe and smart.
• ដើមស្រូវដែលមិនទាន់ពេញវ័យឈរត្រង់
  រ ីឯដើមចាស់ទុំមានទម្ងន់ធ្ងន់នឹងគ្រាប់ធញ្ញជាតិ (daem srauv del min tean penhvey chhr trang; rei daem chas tom mean tomngon thngon neng kreab thnhocheate) — “The immature rice stalk stands straight, while the mature stalk, heavy with grain, bends over.”  This famous saying teaches humility and respect for elders . Young or inexperienced people (empty stalks) may stand tall, but the wise and experienced (full, grain-laden stalks) bow. In life, those with knowledge and responsibility often remain humble. It’s an encouraging lesson to value wisdom and modesty.
• ទូកទៅកំពង់នៅ (tuk tov kompong nov) — “The boat sails by, the shore remains.”  This image of a boat leaving but the shore staying represents legacy. It means our good deeds and reputation (the “shore”) endure even after we move on or are gone . In a positive sense, it teaches that working hard and doing good means you’ll leave behind a lasting, respectable legacy for others to remember.
• នំមិនធំជាងនាលិ (nom min thom cheang neal) — “A cake is always smaller than its baking pot.”  This proverb reminds us not to bite off more than we can chew. In other words, one’s ambition or actions should fit within their ability or resources. It encourages wise planning: just as a cake cannot outgrow its oven dish, we should match our goals to what we can actually achieve. This practical advice keeps us grounded and successful.
• ទឹកសមុទ្រមិនបំពានទឹកទន្លេ (tuk somot min bompean tuk tonle) — “The sea water and the fresh river water never mix.”  This saying describes incompatible things. It teaches that two very different people or situations may not blend together. In a friendly way, it can encourage us to recognize differences: some things just naturally stay separate, and that’s okay. (For example, respecting that tradition and modernity each have their own place.)
• តក់ៗពេញបំពង់ (tak tak penh bampong) — “Many drops of water fill a container.”  A classic proverb about persistence and small efforts. Even tiny drops, added one by one, will eventually fill a pot . The lesson is motivating: keep trying bit by bit and you will succeed. It celebrates gradual progress and the power of consistency.
• ងើយស្កក ឱនដាក់គ្រាប់ (ngeuy skak aong dak kroab) — “Pride earns you nothing, humility earns you many things.”  This saying encourages humbleness over arrogance . When we stay modest and respectful, we build goodwill and opportunities; boasting or being proud closes doors. It’s an upbeat reminder that kindness and humility lead to true rewards in life.
• ស្រឡាញ់មេ បំពេកូន (sralanh meh bampeh koun) — “If you love the parent, you must love the child.”  This proverb speaks to fairness and compassion: love and care should flow both ways between generations . If we cherish our parents, we should also care for the young ones of others. It highlights community and empathy, inspiring people to treat all families with the same affection.
• រក្សាព្រៃគង់ មិនខ្វះអុសដុត (reaksa prey kong min khvas os dot) — “Protect the forest, then you have firewood.”  An environmental proverb about sustainability. It teaches that if we preserve natural resources (keep the forest standing), we will continue to have what we need (firewood) . It’s a positive lesson: by caring for nature today, we ensure benefits for tomorrow. This encourages wise stewardship of the environment.
• ភ្នំមួយមិនដែលមានខ្លាពីរទេ (phnom muoy min del mean khla pir te) — “A mountain never has two tigers.”  This proverb means that only one person can be the leader or top authority at a time. Just as there cannot be two alpha-tigers on the same mountain, there is usually one leader or winner in a given situation. Motivationally, it implies that each person should find their own path rather than clashing with those in charge. It can inspire respect and teamwork: just as one tiger leads the mountain, we each have unique roles.

Each of these Khmer proverbs carries a hopeful life lesson. They reflect values like respect, hard work, humility, and family love. By remembering these sayings, one gains insight into Cambodian culture and guidance for daily life.

Sources: The original Khmer proverbs and their meanings are drawn from Cambodian language and culture references , which explain how these traditional sayings guide people’s behavior and thinking. Each proverb above is a real Khmer saying, cited with authentic transliteration and context.